
You can read the full post from Phil Monroe here if you’d like. Below is a substantial portion of the post – and I’ve highlighted what I think is the kicker. I offer it as food for thought for all of us as we start another semester.
So, here’s my question, can student as consumer also do a good job being student as disciple of Christ? Where’s the line between wise consumer and self-focused/demanding consumer?
This past month my credit card company submitted my check to them TWICE to my bank. That means they took a significant amount of money out of my checking account without my consent–and it could have caused other checks to bounce. I was not happy. Calls to the bank quickly resulted in our getting back what was rightfully mine. I was not happy with the bank for letting it happen and I was not happy with the credit card company for making the mistake. I want them to know that I’m not happy and to assure me it will never happen again. Ultimately, I want them to make me happy all the time. I want them to never let me down. And if they do not make me happy? Then I’ll take my business elsewhere. Isn’t that how we approach most of our consuming? If my favorite restaurant stops pleasing me and treating me as a king, then I’m not likely to go back.
Do students bring this attitude into their education? I think so. I think I did as a student. I noted every failure of my profs. I rarely brought my concerns to them (for fear of looking petty) but more than once I’m sure I complained (shared my feelings) to my peers. Where does it lead us? Grumbling and complaining. Looking at the faults of others rather than our own. Defending rather than being appropriately self-critical. Not sure it is easy to be a disciple when I’m grumbling and complaining.
So, the challenge for students is to bring legitimate concerns and complaints to their professor’s attention, avoid gossip, and consider the formation opportunity in front of them (e.g., life when things don’t turn out as expected). And faculty/administration have the challenge before them to make sure they listen to said complaints, avoid defensiveness, repent where necessary, and pursue both their own and their student’s formative learning moments. Teachers and program administrators must remember that they too are disciples on the same journey as their pupils.
May we all pursue excellence as servants of the kingdom.
2 comments:
Uh...don;t use credit cards.
:)
Good post. As a student I can see this attitude of the "consumer" in students and at times myself; I personally have considered this attitude just irresponsibility of students or students not wanting to grow up. Consider some of the common complaints that students make concering their professors, "That test was so hard. It wasn't fair" In reality the student didn't study. "I didn't know that was due, or I didn't know I had missed that in class" Really the student gets a syllabus and in college life we are responsible for knowing it and when we miss class it is our responsibility to find out anything we need to know.
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